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How it can Get Better
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It Only Gets Better if You Work at it, (and with a little luck).



1. What can you do? Well, do you live in a state that has low equality? If so, MOVE!!!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:US_LGBT_civil_rights_January_2011.svg
Look for a dark colored state, not a white, magenta, cyan one. Purple and Blue.

Why pay another dime in taxes to a state that doesn't care about you? Why live in a place that is likely to have a lower density of people like you. All the smart queers have moved. It's the club-muffins that stay behind for their spicy hookups and flaky romances.

Have you heard that context is everything? Location, location, location.

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Questions on sexuality, your bisexual "subpreference"
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Please answer these only if you are perfectly comfortable discussing with some degree of maturity/seriousness. Please don't read further if this topic would disturb you either. Freaky and candid adults welcome.

For straight women:

If you had to have sex with another woman for some reason, what would that consist of? Her servicing you or you servicing her orally, scissoring, toys/hands? other?

For gay men:

If you had to have sex with another woman for some reason, what would you pick?: coitus, cunnilingus, fellatio, anal top

For lesbian women:

If you had to have sex with a man for some reasons, what would you pick?: coitus, cunnilingus, fellatio, anal bottom, anal top (with toy).

For a straight man:

If you had to have sex with another man for some reason, what would you pick?: fellatio on him, he fellating you, being an anal bottom, being an anal top.

For trans/intersex/already bisexual: feel free to chose one ore more of the above as it relates to you or come up with any of your own.


Also, if you can provide any thoughts as to why, that's not suggested but appreciated. I do realize this may not at all jive with your main preference and might only be a "only if I had to" situation.
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Friending
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Welcome to my humble journal which you may soon be able to read if you can't already. I keep it private mostly from outside crawling and other potential exploitation.

All comments to this thread are autoscreened for your privacy. This post is for communicating privately with me, alerting me to a situation requiring moderation activity or perhaps introducing yourself for friending.

So you want to friend Me? Read on to see what you might expect to see... )

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Gay Rights in 2010 : Equal Opportunity and Diversity in the Echelons of Government via Census
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My job has taught me much in terms of diversity in the workplace. Every 10 years, the U.S. takes a Census. I used to read these things dating back to the 1800s when it was organized by Soundex when my mom was doing geneology for the Mormon church. I like geneology as a past-time but now my interest in the Census is a bit different.

You see, in 2010, the government will be checking to see how many people live where, in what dwelling, (in the 1800s, and again during the Great Depression, it was not uncommon for hired hands on farms and students and other workers to be boarders and not actually part of the family, and as you may recall, many extended family members might have been invited as either hands or working other roles (mining for example)).

The private sector asks standard HR questions to all it's employees...for affirmative action practices but the government is *REQUIRED* to have that information. e.g.: Those categories we all balk about. a) Male, b) Female. a) White/Causasian, b) Hispanic/Latin American, c) Black/African American, c) Polynesian/Pacific Islander etc. and they recently added "Two or More" as a catch all and so on.

Here's the thing, there are in fact diversity requirements. Investigations and reports that analyze the civilian labor force and why a government agency does or does not have numbers that match the local population based on the Census. Yes, you heard that right, the Census. Ok, this is preschool for some of you so I'm going to make my point here. (see subject line again)

One part of LGBT rights might involve (beyond passing the Matthew Shepard Act or finding a gay gene), getting into the census. A gay couple will get more equal opportunity enforcement if the Census were to record this kind of information. The government would then be able to help us out more. Millions of dollars are being spent on everyone else really because of this...but why not us (LGBT)?

So what I would like to see, (in addition to the cure for AIDS, a gay gene (because this helps), is to be included here. There is a mountain of efforts made by agencies to meet quotas based on race, disabilities, and create job fairs, training seminars and a host of other activities based on race and gender and more recently disability but ominously missing is sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is also not a part of most discrimination clauses for equal opportunity in housing, work (and taxes...e.g.: marriage).

Please make this a point whenever the discussion of equal rights comes up. Please understand the system and how it systematically excludes us.
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Gaydar
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Poll #1282453 Gaydar
Open to: All, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 2

What do you look for when using your "gaydar"?




We know about hair whorls and finger lengths but there's a LOT more to gaydar than that.





Gaydar secrets for Gay Men...(SFW pictures) )

[should have edited a while back]

This is now being observed and reported in Scientific American

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=something-queer-about-that-face

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I have aspergers
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No, really, I do.... )
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Friendslist chopping
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I've been chopping away at the friend list about a couple dozen or so and I think I chopped a few by accident. My friendlist is only chopped if most/all the following are true: a) I don't read/you don't post enough, but your latest post must have been interesting and b) I don't know you at all IRL. c) you didn't friend back or respond to me after a couple requests or some such. There are some who don't friend back of course that I enjoy reading so it's not just because of that. If you were chopped and you are reading this now, you were probably chopped by accident and I would ask you to leave me a message here so I can add you back. I did no chopping out of personal angst or ill-wish at this time except the one I talked to very recently and you know who you are and it will be our private concern.

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